Sarmini, Ulin Nadiroh, Muhammad Saeun Fahmi
Marriage is a container for framing the inner-to-heart relationship, the bond of love and affection between a man and woman to nurture a joy of happiness. This study aims to find out how the process and stages in traditional merariq traditions in the Sasak people, conflicts arising from merariq traditions, and reduce conflict through the tradition of selabar. The method used in this research is qualitative analysis method. In the process, merariq tradition is done by kidnapping the bride without the knowledge of the parents or the family of the women. There are several stages that must be passed by the bride and groom in the tradition merariq, namely: besejati, nyelabar, bait wali, sorong serah dan nyongkolang. Conflict that often arises, for internal family, merariq often become a place of coercion against the female family. For society, merariq impact on disruption of harmony of social life. In order to reduce the conflicts done selabar tradition, the tragedy is regarded as an alternative problem solving in the form of negotiations between the bride and groom's family and the bride-to-be relating to ajikrame and pisuke transactions. © Published under licence by IOP Publishing Ltd.
Department of Pancasila and Citizenship Education, Faculty of Social Sciences and Law, Universitas Negeri Surabaya, Ketintang, Surabaya, 60231, Indonesia; Departement of Social Studies, Universitas Negeri Surabaya, Ketintang, Surabaya, 60231, Indonesia; SMP Negeri 1 Praya Timur, Kab. Lombok Tengah, 83581, Indonesia
